getting your own utility pole easments

we’ve been having problems with the local eletric company with leases on thier poles. they don’t have a problem with us hanging fiber but they don’t want us putting tropos 5210 wireless APs on the poles. Has anyone ever gotten thier own poles (that they own and hold the easment) put in close to the eletric companies poles? or know how to go about this?

we’ve asked them to do this but ameran ue won’t do it.